Friday, October 30, 2026

iTunes Drama




My iTunes on my iPhone completely fell apart.

My laptop has, apparently, had a corrupt music art fold cache for sometime. I think the problem started recently when I got Sam's iPhone16, now that he is updating to an iPhone Duo. The change over was not smooth and it all started going down hill from there.

I've managed to work around it by adding and deleting files until I somehow manage to get the correct art work. 

The only thing I couldn't do was get my Apple expert boyfriend interested in the problem. 

I had asked him a number of times and if he didn't pass me off completely, he only gave it a cursory look with encouraging words like, You are doing the right thing, which I knew wasn't anywhere near correct. 

I had googled it and the answer seemed kind of baffling, so I asked Sam and as I said, he just didn't seem to want to help.

At the beginning of the week, I uploaded a new CD I had bought and the art work changed for another CD of the same artist, so I did the stuff I'd been doing to correct that but it wasn't working for some reason. The cord I was using was being temperamental then suddenly all of the music on my phone was wiped off it in a blink of an eye.

WTF?

So, I uploaded my entire iTunes back onto my phone and when it was done all of the art work was completely messed up. Everything had the wrong art work.

Noooooooooooooo!

I tried uploading it again, using the same cord, and suddenly the music on my phone was wiped again.

I went to Sam and implored him to help. And finally, my lovely in every other aspect boyfriend, showed some interest saying, there was an update, which updated iTunes and to do that.

I uploaded my music again, but the art work was so messed up after that, I just wanted to give up in despair at the world. Sam was still not sharing my despair with life.

I wanted to go down to St Kilda pier and throw the phone into the sea.

I googled the instructions for clearing a corrupt art work cache again, putting my laptop down on Sam's lap saying, this is what you have to do!

It was at this point that finally Mr Lovely got interested. 

He cleared the corrupt cache in what seemed like a couple of key strokes. If I wasn't so pleased about it, I may have slapped him.

Then he said, this cord you are using is no good.

"I've told you that."

"Go get the other one off my desk."

I did. 

"There you go, this one fits properly." 

I muttered something derogatory under my breath.

Then he took over and solved the problem. It took him a couple of days, but by yesterday, after months of problems, with me finally having to upload the art work for half my albums on iTunes manually, the problem was finally fixed.

Yay.

That's what I have been doing the last few days.


Monday, October 26, 2026

Mondays Not In The Office




I've come up with a new idea to combat going to the office on Monday.

I wake up early anyway. Oh, I don't know why? Because I'm stupid, because my body if rebelling against me, who knows, it doesn't matter.

I wake up at 5am. I sign into work and do all the work that I need to do. 5am to 9am is plenty of time to get nearly everything I have to do done.

I have 10 years of sick leave I have never used, and which I am never going to use.

Boris never signs in until 9am, so just before 9am, I'll message her and say I am sick for the day.

I put in sick leave for the whole day.

My work is done and I don't need to go to the office, using sick leave I am never going to use anyway.

I think it is brilliant.

The only problem, it is only an occasionally scheme that I can use.

Anyway, it gets me out of going to the office today, and that's all I care about at the moment. What is it they say, if you are anxious, you are living in the future, so lets not be anxious.

8am. I was done. I message Boris with my sick day message.

Boris replies hoping I feel better soon.

I feel no guilt.


Sunday, October 25, 2026

Lots Of Rain




I was up early, Milo and I sitting on the couch. It was really pouring with rain outside. I had to dry Milo with a towel as he jumped up on the couch next to me all wet, like he does, like cats do, I think.

The house is still heated up from those hot days we've had over the last few days. Crazy weather. Who'd know why we are having crazy weather?

Collectively, we all seem to be still in denial about it. We almost collectively put our fingers to our lips and wonder why. Well, it certainly doesn't seem to be foremost in our minds when we vote.

It seems like we are going to sleep walk our way into an environmental catastrophe, despite all the warnings, over all the years. I can't help but think.

I hear them talking about the calamitous fire season we are possibly going to have this summer. There is a lot of talk about greater funding needed for fire fighting, how we must be prepared with greater and greater resources. 

But there never seems to be any talk about the reasons why we might be having a potentially catastrophic fire season. That talk always seems to be missing.

I sit here and wonder what it is going to talk to shake us from our blinkers, as I listen to the rain fall.

Still, the rain sounds nice falling on the roof.


It rained all day, it didn't stop. The rain fell for hours and hours. It never let up.


Saturday, October 24, 2026

Rainy Saturday And Some Squealing Little Bitches




It rained, of course it did. It wouldn't be Melbourne if it didn't rain the day after we had our first 30 degree day since winter, now would it.

It was still warm. We still went out in shorts, of course we did. It was muggy warm. Everyone was out in the 30 degree day clothes, still, pretty much.

We ate lunch in Smith Street, in between rain showers, where the rain still fell in very fine sprinkles which felt nice falling on me, mostly under cover, if it felt anything at all, sort of relief from the muggy day.

There was a clutch of queens, with an ugly little dog, sitting behind us who were determined to be fabulous and loud. Oh! So! Loud! Er! go and be loud somewhere else, I thought. They were sitting in one of those stupid covid-era parkletts so, of course, I was hoping for a car loosing control and driving into them. Oh, not so bad that any of them would be injured, but just enough for them to collective shit the Gucci pants, so I could see it running down the backs of their legs and pooling in the leather loafers, requiring them to depart for parts some where other than there. But, you know, proving once again there is no god, that didn't happen.

Sam calls me Oscar the Grouch. Chuckle. That makes me laugh.

Afterwards, Sam shopped at the supermarket and I chatted to a friend about bulldogs. I told her how we'd applied to adopt an adult bulldog, which we didn't get by the way, apparently she had already found her 'forever home'.

Then we walked home in the finely spitting rain which was really quite nice.


Friday, October 23, 2026

Sunny Friday




Today it is too hot to do anything. Do you like that? First 30 degree day since winter. Er? Any excuse. Ha ha.

Nah, it takes a little acclimatising, it does. The sun is hot.

I take Otto for a walk early when it is still 24 degrees.

We walk through the dog park. A dog park buddy is sitting on the far side of the reserve in the shade of the trees, out of the sun, with his two dogs. We wave. He's a nice bloke. He is sitting there with a woman who has a curly haired dog.

There is a group of people standing in the middle of the park, I don’t know why? They look like a delegation, of some kind. Weird for the dog park. I hope they aren't property developers being surrounded by public housing.

The adolescent German Shepherd I've seen there before comes running over from the shade trees and sniffs Otto’s arse, which he doesn’t see for a minute. When he realises, it scares Mr Otto scardy pants and he races away from the big dog straight into my legs. The group of people see and laugh. The big puppy of a fully grown German Shepherd wants to play with Otto, but Otto wants none of the play with him.

The sun is getting hot.

Then it is the couch for the rest of the day. That is all I was going to accomplish.

That is all I did. 

I reacquaint myself with music in my headphones while watering my plants, late in the afternoon. It's therapeutic. I forget in between how therapeutic it is. A bit of The Rolling Stones while watching the droplets of water glisten in the bright sun light sprinkling down into my plants in their pots.


Thursday, October 22, 2026

Adopting a Rescue




We applied to adopt an adult, female English Bulldog.

Wish us luck.


Wednesday, October 21, 2026

End of the Working Week




End of the week, my week, and the sun shines. The weather has been glorious. Otto and I went for a walk mid afternoon. Sam wanted to go too, but he had a half hour meeting starting fifteen minutes after I wanted to go for a walk, which meant he wouldn't be ready for an hour, potentially, and we'd be back by then, so Otto and I went without him. And, you know, there is something really nice about it just being you and your dog on a gorgeous afternoon.

I've got a sore back, can it really be from sawing up the garden cuttings? I don't know, but it really is sore.

I've been pruning the large tree in my front yard. I haven't pruned it for some time, so its getting a heavy prune, 50% of it is being removed. It's, apparently, good for it, it does it good. It is a flowering tree and a heavy prune will result in a lot more flowers. They say.

So, as you can understand, there are now some large limbs that have to be chopped off, which involves a lot of sawing up of cut sections. I have cut up all of the sections I have cut down by hand. It didn't hurt to do it, but a day, or so, later, I have an incredibly painful mid point, slightly to the right of my spine, like the area I would image the muscles are in my back for my sawing arm. 

Fuck! What a pussy, is all I could think.

It hurts a lot.

So, that's annoying.

I put up with it all day. Oh, the pain.

It wasn't until dinner time that I thought of taking some Ibuprofen. The drugs took the pain right away. Yay for drugs!

The thing is that I am only half way through the tree pruning. Grrr! I'm getting back to it tomorrow, I'm hoping that isn't going to make my sore back worse. I want to finish the job tomorrow, on my day off. Wish me luck. I'm guessing, I'll have to break out the Ibuprofen again tomorrow.

I went to Bunnings and bought a new pruning saw before I started. So far, I have managed to put all the cuttings in our bins to be taken away by the council. (fuck the council and our ever spiralling rates) The neighbours unfathomably putting out two empty bins for rubbish collection helped. I filled them with my cuttings too. Good for them!